Happiness is a positive state of mind which gives a person good and pleasant thoughts, feelings, and emotions, which in turn makes a person satisfied and grateful. 15 fundamental HAPPINESS driving factors are;
- Intention of Happiness: The first and foremost factor is your intention to make yourself happy. Happiness makes a person worth living and joyful.
- Pattern of Thought: If you think positive in the present moment and act accordingly you will be happy. You should not overthink or live in the past or future all the time. Think in the present moment and consider it as an opportunity for doing something useful.
- Save yourself from Negativity by your Willpower: Initiate a process of Self-Correction within yourself and mold yourself to convert negativity into positivity.
- Making yourself Relax: This is an umbrella factor, which includes all those factors which make you relax, for example, good sleep, good relationship, patience, balanced diet, and good habits, etc.
- Put your Trust in Allah & Free your mind from Worries: Allah is All-Mighty and Most Merciful, put your trust in Him. Pray to All-Mighty Allah and follow His Commandments, you will feel confidence and internal satisfaction of relationship with God, Who is the Most Powerful and having control over everything. This High and Trustworthy Relationship with God, make you highly satisfied and happy.
- Gratitude: Be grateful for what you have. Think and feel gratitude of all the blessings, gifts and whatever you have. You should be thankful for the help, gifts, service, respect and care of others and All-Mighty Allah. To become happy there is need of keeping yourself alert to observe, open the eyes, ears, and mind; there are many blessings on you all the time, you should be thankful to God and people.
- Seeking Meaning of Life: You should serve a meaningful life by adopting a set of good values; like being an honest person, caring others, especially the significant relatives, like parents, sisters and brothers, wife, etc. You will have a good relationship with others, having intrinsic satisfaction and happiness.
- Good Pattern of Habits: Good, positive, and constructive set of habits makes a person positive, optimistic and happy.
- Be Humble and Live Simple: Humility involves a willingness to accept the self-limits and not showing arrogance. Simple life gives you easy life, concentrate better on prioritized life goals, sleep better, feel better physically; can help you grow spiritually, decrease chronic stress and improve relationships.
- Learn to Forgive & Free your Heart from Hatred: When you adopt the habit to forgive others consequently you will not think about retaliation. So, you will feel comfortable and free of hatred.
- Organized Life: Make your life well-planned and organized . Organized life make you relax, convenient and useful. You will be happy to utilize your life focused on to-do- list.
- Contentment: Contentment make you self-sufficient whatever you have. You will think that whatever you have is enough for life, you are not in the race of more and more which never ends.
- Responsible Attitude and Behavior: Show constructive attitudes and behavior towards predetermined goals and life which make you a hard and smart worker and high performer. Good and high performance in turns bring satisfaction and happiness in your life.
- Serving and Helping others: Serve the people. Give, but expect only from Allah Ta'ala. You should serve others; Naturally, people will care, respect and love you in return. This good response of people will give you satisfaction and happiness.
- Personal Development: Daily work on improving your habits and character. Peorsonal Development will give you feeling of growth and improvement. This good feeling will make you Happy.
A'meen
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